I'll just sit tight.

Even better than this video is the first comment underneath it:

"I used to sit at Lynn's house, and listen to this with her. 33 years ago it was. She said it was her favorite song. I always think of you, and what could have been when I hear this.If you are out there Lynn, email me!!!!"

I am bad at letting go, but I am working on it. I hope that decades from now, I'm not still looking back on the time I spent with the assholes I've been with (and they were ALL assholes- selfish, immature, unfeeling- every last one) and thinking about what could have been if they had acted right.